My Father was a Pompous fiend and although he is a hard man he thought his abuse of me was right.?

Should I expose to him to my sister and brother who are enablers to his abuse?Should I seek help of social services.They lost track of me 4 a long time and also I don't want to be dragged into the Mental Health system via CMHT .That Foul nuisance made my life a misery and pissed away my Education and I ended up in Hospital mistakenly though I wasn't actually mad just tormented by that cheat.Any advice would be a help.Please can you respond?He is a freak and a Paedophile if harrassing me as he does is Paedophilia.

He harrassed me sexually,he was always trying to get gen from me on that.He swore in 40's slang.He stole the Sports trophies from anRAF aerodrome or post.(probably Northolt)He was a foul man and used obscenity in a normal way he changed my name to an obscenity.He imagined I was guilty of all kinds of daft lies.In fact he was a compulsive liar.

Your father is wrong to do this to you and you should report him to the police immediately. The police have special officers to deal with this sort of person and will deal with you sympathetically. They will also be able to put you in touch with specialist groups who will help you try to put what has happened to you in the past to enable you to get on with your future. Do not let this fiend get away with what he has put you through or be allowed to do these things to anyone else. Report the matter to the police sooner rather than later. It is a huge step for you to take, but please believe me, once you have taken that first step you will be glad you did. I wish you well.

Go to the police and turn him in. If he did this to you he has done it to and may still be doing it to other children. He needs to be behind bars.

I suspect you have no idea of the definition of Paedophilia, and it is unforgivable for you to use the term without any justification.

Unless he has harrassed you in a sexual manner, or has molested you, he is not a pedophile, or, if he hasn't done this to you, but you know he has done this to other minors, he is. Still you should seek the help of social services for any kind of mental/ emotional abuse.

Put the Abusers where they belong,behind bars or dead.Sick bastards perpetuate their sickness.

I am very sorry for you and there is no doubt you need help from somewhere otherwise, at some point, you will take the law into your own hands.

It is obvious you are very hurt and unhappy, but it would be wrong to give you an opinion from the information you give here. Yes, you definitely need to speak to someone who is qualified and objective. Did you try and speak to your Doctor? He or she would be able to refer you to the right place and person who will be able to help appropriately. Please speak to someone without delay.

he is a paedophile and should be reported asap wont be such a hard man when exposed more like the sad freak that he is .....get him out your life for good......be strong

I feel very sorry for you and the awful experiences that you have had to endure. If he sexually abused you then yes you must go to the Police as he could do it to another child. The man sounds like a monster. You need to talk to somebody about this urgently. Please don't take the law in to your own hands he's not worth it. I wish you good luck and I am thinking of you.

I don't know about the UK but here in the us we pick up a phone and dial 911.

Report it to the police.