Don't understand my husband's weird behavior??

My husband said he only looks at jobs and funny sites on the internet. Today when he closed the computer, I got into it to check my email and to see a video on youtube someone had sent me. I found out he was looking at teenagers videos, some of them stripping in front of the camera, dancing, shaking their "booties", etc. I confronted him about that, he said he never saw these videos. It's either him or our dog! I have no interest, and I'm sure I didn't look at those. So who else? I told him he'd better watch because the sheriff in our county is tracking pedophiles on the net. A couple of weeks ago they busted and arrested a bunch of them. My problem is: I will be left out without a computer, and I can't afford that. I use the computer for work. I cannot understand his behavior... he's 32. What can I do?

Last week I locked the computer with the password as I had to go to work ( I work nights at a local nursing home). He got so mad he told me that he would erase all my pics in the computer (family pics, etc). I told him he cannot do that. He said he would just drop the computer on the floor and break it into pieces and be done with that problem. I said if you do that I call the cops on you for vandalism. He said "how can this be vandalism? vandalism is when you break something from someone else... in this case "I" bought the computer, it is MINE."... how can you deal with someone like that??? or am I crazy?

save all the important information you have on cds


sounds like he is a loser
if he likes teen stuff, then kick him out
you dont want to have kids with this guy and then one day finds out he harrassed your kids ya know

also if he breaks your computer
take something he adores and break it LOL
like his car or something he collects

You are taking away hubbies porn.

Men need porn! You should buy him a DVD collection for Christmas...

Stop being such a prude, and you two need to get separate computers.

domestic violence is the charge.
You can get a domestic violence charge for slamming a door.

I don't agree with the idea, but it is what it is.

Hold on. I see people who set up links on here for people to go look at but once you do it has changed. I didn't even read past the first couple of lines of you email & wanted you to know that they change so he might be telling you the truth.

id suggest he sticks to vids of girls 18+ so he doesnt end up having to register as a sex offender for the rest of his days.

Looks like you're headed for either a marriage councilor or a divorce, make a choice.

I hate to tell you this, but men are all the same, they love to watch porn on computer or TV and if you catch them out, they will simply keep denying it and lying to your face. You can't stop them from doing it, just try not to get upset (which i know is difficult) and try not to let it bother you, he still loves you.