Can I lose the custody of my child?

My child has live with me since she was a born. He father was given visitation days by the court. But for almost a year I gave him extra time with our child. (Without having to go to court) He requested extra time and I gave him more time. But a few weeks ago he demanded more time. But the more I give the more he wants. His not satisfied. He called me to tell me that he has things on me and that he was going to get me in trouble. Well he got a lawyer and he now wants custody of our child. On the papers file, he lied about everything. His accusing me of things I have never done or never said. When we first went to court four year ago, the judge gave me custody and did not believed any of the lies he said.

I have been working in the same company for the past nine months. I have a house, car, daycare and food. I don鈥檛 spoke, drink or do drugs. My children are always clean and well care for. I give them what I can. But most of all, I love my children with all of my heart. I trust in God and he knows whose heart is not in the right. I know his mad and trying to get hurt me. I just don鈥檛 want to see my children hurt or away from home.

If anyone has any advise please help.

That whole second paragraph was completely unnecessary. He's not going to be able to win a "he said, she said" case. Get an attorney and see if you can counter-sue for court costs.

there is no reason for you to lose custody - unless like you said he has something on you? what could that be?

he could try for joint custody?

i really don't think the judge will give him full custody if you are doing everything you say you are......

contact your attorney, if you have no history of drugs/drinking or abuse, the only thing they will probably do is give him more vistation time.

'The truth needs no defense'.

If what you are saying is true, you have nothing to worry about.

You were very accomodating to allow your children's father additional time with the kids over and above the court-ordered visitation.

He is within his rights to seek custody.

If he makes allegations challenging your parenting in court, the burden of proof will be on him. If he lies and judge finds out, he can be charged with perjury, although it is unlikely. Unless conditions in your home have changed significantly since the previous order, it is unlikely the judge will give him full custody. A more likely outcome is shared custody.