If you were 16,alone,and didn't know anything about help from the state, would you give you baby up foradoptio

Main question is would you give your baby up for adoption or would you keep the baby, and if you did give the baby up whoul fight for a chance to get it back when you know it was going a lot better for you and you know that you could take care of the child.

yes if you dont want it.if you do want it go to this site .

If you do give your baby up for adoption, you really need to consider that permanent as far as being that child's legal gaurdian. A few adoptive parents are willing to allow you to stay in contact with your child because they want the child to know his or her biological mom. These are few and far between though because adoptive parents are afraid biological moms will try to take off with their babies later.

As far as whether to keep your baby or give your baby up for adoption, I think you really have to take a very honest look at who you really are. Will you be able to be a steady and dependable mom for the long haul? Not wishes now, you have to be honest with this. How mature are you and will you likely be even over the hard stretches? If you doubt you will be steady, it really would be better to give your baby to a couple who will provide a steady phyisical, financial, and emotion home to grow up in. I know several families who have adopted and every one of them are families that are absolutely incredible. Lots of love and such good care. Did you know that adoptive parents pay at least $10K for an adoption and often have to wait for longer than 9 months. My pastor's family have two sweet boys and they have been trying to have a baby for 5 years. They finally made the hard decision to adopt because she is over 40 years old now and pregnancy chances are dropping so low that they were advised to look to adoption. There were so few American babies and they wanted to provide a Christian home to a baby that would otherwise likely be stick in a country where Christianity is limited and persecuted. They decided to adopt from China. They have been waiting 9 months already since putting in their application and downpayemet and will likely have 9 more months to go. Bless her heart, she has cried many a tear of longing through this long wait. Her heart just aches. The adoption is $10,000. The reason I go into all this detail is to show you how much your baby is going to be loved. The adoptive family will have sacrificed so much to be the lucky ones to get your baby. Most will be couples in their 30's or early 40s who have a stable relationship with each other, are well established financially, and have a deep desire for a baby.

I know this is a really hard decision. I will pray for you.